top of page


I am here for myself and honestly do not feel like I want a person or any specific one to be there for me. We all have that moment where we are sad, depressed, anxious, and whatnot! but after everything what matters is if you have been there for yourself. We love and live in a world that has too many faces to count but it's up to you which side you want to embrace and choose. It takes a hell lot of courage to stand up for others but those who may always stand up for others may always not have that same courage for their own self.

I know sounds weird but true, We forget sometimes that our self is important too. Sometimes we just try to get ourselves busy with other things so that we don't have to stress more about our problems.

The thing is we all have encountered worse things at a point in our lives which could be bizarre or not but it only depends on one's opinion. A trauma or incident can leave you speechless and affects you in so many unknown and known ways. We need to treat ourselves worthy too. If you praise yourself no problem do whatever you wish to do because as it is said " People's work is to say and put their nose in other business' so you might as well just do it!

We need to realise that we can not always worry about what others will say or think. As an Indian, I have heard so many things which straight up do not make sense or logic, too many myths are normal things for Asians but there are always few people who have the guts to stand up to the myths of society. A very famous example of Arunachalam Muruganantham, I would like to mention. He is famous globally many of you readers might be wondering what has he done? Arunachalam Muruganantham (Padman) is a social entrepreneur from Coimbatore in Tamil Nadu, India. He is the inventor of the low-cost sanitary pad-making machine and is credited for innovating grassroots mechanisms for generating awareness about traditional unhygienic practices around menstruation in rural India. A movie was also created called " Padman" on his life which shows how menstruation which is such a natural thing was treated as something bad and gross. Still many myths of different kinds are there in this world related to all genders. It is a matter of time that we all understand the importance of everyone Not just of Girls or Guys or TRANS but of EVERYONE. Honestly, I would not like to live in a world where everyone is judged based on clothes and not their personality. but that is not changing any soon only if youth could do something... Wait a sec! We are the youth! We are the future then why can't we end this so-called society thinking. There is no need to spend years of our life in realising that we can do whatever we want to with the right sentiment. JUST BE YOU! BE Unique, Be weird, be anything because who wants to be normal?


Adiva Siddiqui

IG: @divwrites_

(Adiva is a writer, YouTuber, student, founder of Divwrites)

24 views0 comments

Recent Posts

See All
bottom of page